How to Get a Girlfriend: The 3 Important Steps to Getting the Girl of Your Dreams
Getting a girlfriend, to many guys can be a difficult endeavour. They have to join tons of online dating sites, use social media, join a cooking class in the hopes that they will find the perfect girlfriend. Yes, these are some of the things you can do to find yourself a girlfriend. Or you can follow what I teach in this article and get the girl of your dreams. Here, I teach you how to get a girlfriend using 3 sure-fire steps.
What I teach you in this article will help you avoid the mistakes most guys who want to get a girlfriend and get married make - settling for whatever life throws at them.
In other words, as dating expert Joseph Matthews puts it in his book, The Art of Approaching: "you settle for what you're lucky enough to get".
The most important thing to know about getting a girlfriend is that it's not so much about "getting a girlfriend" so to speak. Rather, it's about the steps to take to get THE perfect girlfriend.
When set out right, you're sure to get the girl of your dreams. But when set out wrong, just like what happens to most men who wanted to find a wife, you will end up with the wrong girl.
So, how do you get a girlfriend or how do you find a girlfriend then?
Simple...
Follow these three important steps:
Know the type of girl you want
Know where to find her
Work on your self-confidence then go out and find her
When you jump into the dating scene using these three sure-fire steps, you're sure to meet the girl of your dreams.
Now, let's go into detail.
How to Get a Girlfriend using the 3 Sure-Fire Steps
Step #1: Know what you want
Before you jump into the dating scene and get yourself a girlfriend, know the type of girl you want.
Do you want a highly educated girl?
Do you want a girl who enjoys outdoor activities like yourself?
Do you want a slim girl or a chubby girl?
Do you want a blonde, brunette, or redhead?
Do you want to get a white girlfriend, Asian, black, brown skin girl?
Know the type of girl you want and don't settle for what you're lucky to get.
Why is this important?
Simple...
Because you don't want to end up with the wrong girl, or a girl you don't have a commonality with.
Knowing the type of girl you want will help you stay focused on the steps you need to take to find her.
When you set out looking for a girlfriend with the tips and steps laid out here, you will meet lots of single girls. And this could inadvertently be an obstacle.
But when you're focused, you will be able to eliminate any obstacle or distractions that could keep you from meeting the girl of your dreams.
Now understand this... though you will meet lots of single and good-looking girls, and have great conversations with them, save your seduction techniques and tactics for the girl you want. And make her fall in love with you.
To the next step on how to get a girlfriend...
Always know what you want, and don't settle for what you're lucky to get
Step #2: Know where to find the type of girl you want
The next step after knowing the type of girl you want, is to know where to find her.
Now, why is this second step important?
Because it narrows your search.
To borrow a phrase from dating expert Joseph Matthews, "different places attract different types of women".
So if you want a girl who likes to party, you know you will find her at a nightclub. If you want the religious type, then you know you will find her at church events.
There are tons of places to meet women and find yourself a girlfriend. Museums, the gym, book stores, libraries are all good place to find a girlfriend.
But the easiest way to get a girlfriend of your dreams is to know the right place to meet her.
Again, if you want a girl who likes to party, you will find her at a nightclub. If you want the religious type, you will find her at church events.
Now, I'm not saying you cannot meet your ideal girl in other places that doesn't conform to her personality.
For instance, if you want a religious girl, it doesn't mean you cannot find her at a nightclub.
You can...
But your chances of meeting a religious girl at a nightclub is slim to none.
So if you want to meet a particular type of girl, you have to go to places that are DESIGNED to help you meet that particular type of girl.
This is how to get a girlfriend fast and easy - by not wasting your time at places you don't need to be.
The third and final step on how to get a girlfriend...
Step #3: Work on your self-confidence then go out and find her
You know what you want. And you have what it takes (even if you think you don't, you do)... so don't second-guess yourself.
Believe that you're an attractive guy. And every girl or woman will be interested in you.
Believe that you have what it takes to make a female happy. And that every girl or woman will be lucky to have you.
Once you work on your self-confidence, you get out there and you find the girl of your dreams.
So there you have it - how to get the girl you want, or how to have a girlfriend of your dreams.
Conclusion
Finding a girlfriend of your dreams shouldn't be difficult.
Follow the three steps mentioned above and you're sure to get the perfect girl you always wanted.
So that's how to get a girlfriend fast and easy.
How to Start a Sexual Conversation With a Girl Without Sounding Awkward or Creepy
In this article, I teach you how to start a sexual conversation with a girl without telegraphing sexual intents.
Your conversation with a girl you're interested in should be geared towards sexually suggestive topics.
In other words, if you're talking to a girl you feel attraction for and want to get into a romantic relationship with, you will want to make your conversation or interaction with her sexual in nature.
In addition to the friendly conversation you will be having with her, you have to move towards sexual suggestive topics to bring you closer to an intimate bond.
The goal here is to introduce sexual tension and generate attraction with her.
Truth is, if you keep talking to a girl you're interested in on the level of a friend, she will categorize you as a friend in her mind.
She will see you as just a friend, but not someone she feels sexually attracted to.
Now, the drawback to this is that, women or girls know that men want to have sex with them. So any tentative suggestion or advances from you can cause a woman to raise her defenses.
So how do you go about this? How do you start a sexual conversation with a girl without raising any red flags?
Exactly as the title says, in this article I teach you how to start a sexual conversation with a girl without sounding awkward or creepy.
You'll learn the 3 best ways to introduce the topic of sex without telegraphing any interests.
Before you begin...
Know that, women love to talk about sex...
But most of them are reluctant to talk about it with men they don't feel comfortable with, or don't have an emotional connection with.
So before you initiate sexual topics with a woman or a girl, make sure you've gained rapport with her first.
It's even better if she's giving you some indications of interest. For instance, when she's playing with her hair, touching you, or leaning in close when conversing.
With that said, let's get started... on how to start a sexual conversation with a girl.
Here's how to start a sexual conversation with a girl:
Tip #1: Talk about things from the sexual perspective
Let's say you're talking about a movie.
Don't tell her how much you liked it for its car chase and how some dude got to kick some more ass.
Instead, tell her about how you liked the love relationship between the characters.
And how you loved the sensuality of their scenes together. And then you ask her if there are any other movies that has affected her that way, and have her explain why.
Tip #2: Feed her mind
Slip in sexually charged words or phrases into your normal conversation with her.
A great way to do this is by using sexual innuendos or double entendre. This is when you say something innocent, yet can be deemed dirty or sexual.
For instance:
"Boy, this is really hard." (When you're talking about a popsicle.)
"I didn't come with her." (When you're talking about a party you went to.)
"He almost rear-ended her." (When you're talking someone getting hit by a car.)
Another effective way to feed her mind or gradually bring up sexual topics is to use "That's what she said jokes" and "That's what he said jokes".
When she says something like:
"Put it inside"
"It's much better when it's wet"
"Do you want to come inside" (when she's inviting you into her apartment)
... then you respond with:
"That's what SHE said"
Or when she says something like...
"You're making it hard (for me)"
"It's getting really hard"
"I want to eat the whole thing"
... then you respond with:
"That's what HE said"
When she says something dirty on purpose, then tease her for having a dirty mind.
Of course, you don't want to go into this territory during the early stages or when you've just met.
You start with superficial conversation, then build it up to a more sexual conversation.
Again, make sure you've gained rapport with her first. Then you start using words that are sexually charged in your conversation.
And with time, she'll be comfortable talking about sexual topics with you.
If she doesn't play along, then she probably isn't comfortable with you yet.
Next on how to start a sex conversation with a girl...
Tip #3: Bring up a sexual situation of a friend of yours
For instance:
You can tell her you have a female friend who is complaining that her boyfriend doesn't like going down south during sex. And she thinks her boyfriend doesn't like the idea of going down on her or isn't taking the hints she's giving him.
Now, ask her how women can suggest things like that to their men.
"So how do women hint that sort of thing?"
(You see what you're doing here... you're getting her to specifically talk about sex)
Now, if she talks freely on the subject of sex, then she's comfortable discussing sexual situations with you.
And from here on, she'll start initiating sexual conversations with you.
So there you have it... how to start a sex conversation with a girl or a woman.
Understand this: Don't make the girl or woman you're talking to the subject of sexual conversation. Only talk about other people's sexual situations.
Conclusion: How to start a sex conversation with a girl
If you can bring up sexual topics or start a sexual conversation with a girl in a way that doesn't hint you want to sleep with her, she will be more interested and open to talking about sexual topics with you. (Again, women love to talk about sex)
And again, as mentioned earlier, make sure you've gained rapport with her first.
Pay attention to her when using the above 3 tactics.
If you can tell she's comfortable with such conversation and she plays along, take it further. But if not, back off a little and continue with your normal conversation.
When all's said and done, when a woman is open to talking about sex, it doesn't mean she's ready to have sex with you. It means she's comfortable around you. And it's a green light to move things into the romantic arena.
So again, that's how to start a sexual conversation with a girl.
5 Holiday Destinations for Single Men
For most unattached men, the word "single" brings a dual, or should that be duel, feeling. Being single is synonymous with freedom, but on the flip-side, very few men look forward to a lifetime spent alone. Thankfully, there are many destinations for a single vacation where a guy can tackle this conundrum on his own terms, in due time, but always after a hot experience in paradise. Here are five places that are custom-made for a singles holiday.
Medellin, Colombia:
Made for: Adventure-seekers, and romantics
The draw: Endless jungles, and seduction as a culture
The terrain surrounding this ancient city is one of the most diverse in Colombia and a great vacation for singles. It has tall mountain peaks, jungle highlands and lowlands, deep gorges and canyons, and amazingly hypnotic farming areas. Every type of terrain offers the opportunity for extreme guided excursions. Places like the Abbura Valley are unmatched in the world for seasonal color. Temesis offers endurance hikes and waterfall rappelling only minutes from the city. Of course, there are thousands of private places like Los Katios National Park, where the jungle meets a crystal clear pool, perhaps with a cave or hot spring. This is the ideal spot for a single guy to entertain a lovely local girl, or fellow traveler in a dream-like setting.
Rio De Janeiro, Brazil
Made for: Fit men who can dance and who crave noise
The draw: 24 hour socializing and parties
Party Mecca for single men is Carnival, and Rio is its home base. Almost all year long, people in this city throw back the curtains for tourists. This is especially true for single guys who are extremely comfortable with leaving their self-loathing behind the moment the step off the plane. Festa (Portuguese for feast/celebration), is ingrained in Brazilian culture. In the ancient world, all roads led to Rome. In Rio, all roads lead to the beach, or a world class nightclub. There are the classics like Ipanema and the Copacabana, but other venues are becoming popular, especially if you have a favorite beach activity. Praia Vermelha is a surf hub, and Praia da Barra da Tijuca is famous for motor sports and parasailing. After working on the tan,go for dancing, drinks, and booty-watching at clubs like Leviano with its massive mosh pit, and Casa Rosa for laser-lit, edgy interaction. Rio might well be the perfect place for singles to holiday.
Bangkok, Thailand
Made for: Urban-oriented, tryst addicts
The draw: Food, adult entertainment, and more food
Men from all over the world find Bangkok to be a fascinating study in opposites. There's no argument that adult entertainment in all forms is a major draw, but local laws and customs must be respected at all times. It's absolutely possible to find any type of entertainment that you want, but it must be enjoyed on the culture's terms. Bangkok is like a single traveller's fantasy theme park, but definitely... ahem, lives up to its name. The people of Bangkok are exotic creatures in familiar westernized, U.S. and Euro-style packages. They are very accommodating to the expectations of single male tourists, and have the inviting currency exchange rate to boot. Restaurants like Xing Fu satisfy a guy's stomach. Fitness and outdoor gyms help a guy retain his muscle tone while away from home. Elephant riding in the Khoa Yi National Park provides opportunities for selfies to make friends jealous. Adult clubs, lounges and hotel concierge like will certainly where out a single guy's eyes (if not his entire body). As a single guy wrestles with the notion of settling-down in life, he can get the "wildness" out in this huge bachelor party of a destination.
Ibiza, Spain
Made for: History-lovers, mermen
The draw: Genuine locals, The Mediterranean
Ibiza is an island getaway steeped in old world culture including religion, sport, and cuisine. The deepest blue imaginable comes from an interface with the Mediterranean Sea, and the deepest brown is found in the eyes, hair and skin of some of Europe's most alluring women making it the dream holiday for singles. A network of inviting villages each have town centers emerging from a catholic chapel like the Capilla de la Virgen de Lourdes, or a school or monastery. As far as social activities, anything having to do with playing on the sand or in the water is available. This area is very family friendly, so singles fun remains extremely intimate and low key. Single men should try offering a lonely local girl a glass of wine followed by a conversation on art, and a paddle board session afterward.
Cancun, Mexico
Made for: Penny-pinchers, beach bums
The draw: Oceanside recreation, tequila, tans
This resort city is obviously popular with the college Spring Break crowd for reasons that also appeal to any single man. Every dinner plate, public transport, cabana, fishing charter, beach chair rental, and bottle of Jose Cuervo is affordable. This means single guys in every stage of life can find a way to have fun. Spend a few days hiking in the Yucatan inland camping near the Chichen Itza Pyramid, then join a beach rave with some new Mexican friends for the rest of the trip.
5 Things Men Find Sexy
One of men's greatest fears is that they will end up to a woman who is an emotional liability. They fear being trapped in a miserable relationship. The last thing they want is to be in an unfulfilling relationship with a woman who doesn't make him happy. Below are some qualities women who satisfy men often have.
The first quality that men often admire in a woman is direction. Men don't want to be a woman's life, nor do they want to be her sole provider. Men want a woman who has her own goals and ambitions, a woman who knows what she wants and is prepared to go and get it.
The second quality men like in a woman is independence. This quality ties into the first one but it is more holistic. An independent woman has her own life. She has her own career, her own friends and interests and isn't the type to drop all of her plans to cater to a guy or go out of her way to show him how much she likes him.
Thirdly, men respect a woman who respects herself. This is often the reason why men get away with a whole lot of stuff. See a man is only going to respect you as much as you respect yourself. Set your standards and don't let anyone fall below them.
The fourth feature men love is the natural look. Men love a woman in her gym gear, without makeup on. I know it sounds contradictory to what women know, but a woman without makeup on is 100 times more appealing to a man than a girl who looks like a clown face.
Lastly, guys love a woman with a great smile. For a start it makes her look approachable and she looks happy. This relates to the first quality on the list. Men look for a woman who is going to compliment their life. They want a woman to want to share her happiness with them. They don't want to prop up a woman and be the only thing she has going for her in her life.
The theme with all of the above traits is that they endorse a woman's stability. While it is important to drop your guard and express your thoughts and feelings in order to develop the superglue of a relationship - an emotional connection, you must firstly show a guy that you are secure within yourself.
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